Reply & Respond

Tell us if you mean
to come.

Headcount drives food, drink, and the floor plan, so a reply by October 1st is the kindest thing you can do. We'll start gently reminding you well before then. Or text Heidi directly if forms aren't your thing — (503) 929-4228.

RSVP by October 1, 2026 a month before the night
Kimberly as queen
“The most beautiful of all living things.”Lúthien — J.R.R. Tolkien, The Silmarillion
image inspired by an original 1972 watercolor by Heidi and Kim's father, Rene DeHaan
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Question One Will you be there?
White tiger illustration by Rene DeHaan
“No admittance except on party business.”from Bilbo Baggins’ gate at Bag End — J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
image inspired by an original 1970s charcoal drawing by Heidi and Kim's father, Rene DeHaan
The honest answer is the kind one.
Question Two Your party
Tell us how many of you are coming and who they are. Names help us at the door and for seating.
Question Three How we reach you in case the date or details shift
Question Four Food & drink allergies, dietary needs, favorite drinks
Heavy hors d'oeuvres with vegetarian and gluten-free options. If there's something serious, tell us now and we'll plan for it.
Question Five Anything for us? optional
Questions, requests, well-wishes — whatever's on your mind.
Your reply is received

Excellent. We'll see you on the 31st.

A note has been written down in the book. We'll be in touch closer to the date with the practical bits.

The Venue
Hollinshead Barn
1235 NE Jones Rd
Bend, OR 97701
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If you need to change anything — bringing someone, dropping out, dietary update — just text Heidi at (503) 929-4228.

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